Good Riddles

Question: You and me are the same, you see. So can you see what that makes me similarly?

Question: What is a stick but not a stick?

Question: i am boiling hot and freezing col at the same time what am i?

Question: You want me more, you want me less. This is just how I put your control drama's to test. Wont matter if you watch me, i'll only seem to stall. It's seems just when I'm up is when you'll miss me at all.

Question: One stroke is not enough to deal damage but combined with many strokes, I am able to deal mass damage. What am I?